tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19009705.post6426268308576856585..comments2023-09-15T07:50:20.256-04:00Comments on Am I Thinking That?: Promises, Broken With the feelings of the RecluseCharleshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13345880226202913405noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19009705.post-2626244853243486272007-10-17T22:47:00.000-04:002007-10-17T22:47:00.000-04:00"When I say I'm going to do something for someone,..."When I say I'm going to do something for someone, I do it."<BR/><BR/>That's because you're a good person. I know it hurts, but think about it, sweetie... Would you rather be the good person that thinks of others or the person that is so self-absorbed that they blow people off? She missed out, not you. <BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/><BR/>AriArihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13775458221508958545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19009705.post-8145101495641425372007-10-10T16:03:00.000-04:002007-10-10T16:03:00.000-04:00Don't let people get to you Charles. I've found th...Don't let people get to you Charles. I've found that the only person you can really trust is yourself. It makes it harder when you know you wouldn't do what this girl did. It's nice to know that you're a man of his word. Jeannette xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19009705.post-46936726904173712352007-10-02T11:59:00.000-04:002007-10-02T11:59:00.000-04:00Most people are jerks in some fashion. You can't ...Most people are jerks in some fashion. You can't control what others do, you can only control how you react to it.<BR/><BR/>I take things people say like a grain of salt. If it pans out, fine. If not, I don't get too upset about it. Why waste the energy? It is better to blow it off than to assign negative attributes to them or you when you really don't have enough information.<BR/><BR/>Most people are jerks in some way. Just let them be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19009705.post-91651370186626488332007-09-21T14:32:00.000-04:002007-09-21T14:32:00.000-04:00The words Broken Promises keep fluttering around m...The words Broken Promises keep fluttering around my Dome like butterflies made of glass Shards.<BR/><BR/>Wow....that line is worded perfectly. Your writing keeps evolving into more and more powerful punches. <BR/><BR/>As far as the relationship, it isn't rude the next time you see her to ask, "what happened the other night? I was looking forward to it but figured something came up." Then let her off the hook. If she does it a second time, then just know she is inconsiderate and it's not you, but don't give her another chance to do it a third time. That's just my opinion.Chrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14861482393432330011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19009705.post-15104148251335955272007-09-18T23:16:00.000-04:002007-09-18T23:16:00.000-04:00::puts hands on your cheeks and pushes em together...::puts hands on your cheeks and pushes em together till you make the fish lips face::<BR/><BR/>I love ya big guy!<BR/><BR/>*smooches*<BR/><BR/>If you need me, I am once again home.Chellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02670447056852537876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19009705.post-16011042021739286802007-09-16T12:05:00.000-04:002007-09-16T12:05:00.000-04:00:( It makes it even more painful when you know tha...:( It makes it even more painful when you know that you would never do that to anyone else...of course you deserve to be treated with the same courtesy, respect and honor you give others. Unfortunately, many people are not as honorable. Such is life.<BR/>One thing I can suggest though, for the sake of enjoying yourself more, is remembering who you are dealing with and not mentally relying on certain people to be as considerate as you are. For instance, in this situation you already knew she is...um... flaky. Don't think of it as letting you down, just see it as an opportunity for having fun and take charge...like going by her house or calling her up early that day and going, "We're still hanging out tonight? I'll be there at 7:00." If you can't even consistently count on her after you help things along, then I would back off altogether.<BR/>As far as the people in your life who mean the most....when they let you down and break promises....that's a whole other level.sharihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00708040260965118931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19009705.post-33530533867811229772007-09-16T12:03:00.000-04:002007-09-16T12:03:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.sharihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00708040260965118931noreply@blogger.com